Having a will is arguably one of the most important things you can do for yourself and your family. Not only can a will legally protect your spouse, children, and assets, but it can also spell out exactly how you would like things handled after you have passed on.

In the event of a divorce with a child or children in the family, it's important to let both the mother and father have a say in how parenting time is divided. On top of this, the news of separation might be scary for the child or children, so it's important to listen to your child's preferences and be honest. 

Depending on whether you are preparing to leave, wanting a trial separation, or a divorce, your choice dictates the degree of finality in your words. You want to be able to voice your thoughts openly and clearly, and eventually, figure out what's best for you and your spouse. This process includes talking honestly, preparing to leave, and practicing separation before the divorce.